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[–] 37 points 9 months ago (6 children)

Wouldn't the ideal future be not needing to ask if they know what concerns is (because they already know)? Although this is a great interim step.

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  • [–] 10 points 9 months ago (5 children)

    We ain't gonna get there, friend.

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  • [–] 8 points 9 months ago (2 children)

    hi! thanks for your comment, but unfortunately this community has a rule that only women are permitted to comment or post, so please don’t comment further.

    thanks for understanding 💛

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  • [–] 30 points 9 months ago*

    This unironically, consent is critical to a good sex/cuddle life.

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  • [–] [M] 16 points 9 months ago

    Please note: this community is women-only, please read the rules before commenting.

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  • [–] 10 points 9 months ago (2 children)

    Dang, that should be the standard going forward. If a bouncer isn’t asking dudes to define what consent is, skip that bar and go to the next.

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  • [–] [M] 7 points 9 months ago

    hi! thanks for your comment, but unfortunately this community has a rule that only women are permitted to comment or post, so please don’t comment further.

    hope you understand 💙

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  • [–] 7 points 9 months ago* (6 children)

    yes means yes no means no. each person decides for themselves and not others. it seems pretty simple to me.

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  • [–] 3 points 9 months ago (3 children)

    I think in addition, you're looking for an enthusiastic yes, and an absence of "no" is not implicit consent.

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  • [–] 3 points 9 months ago (2 children)

    i mean you're explicitly talking sexual consent, i'm just talking consent.

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  • [–] 1 point 9 months ago (1 child)

    Not necessarily. In what other context would you say my comment doesn't apply?

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  • [–] 9 points 9 months ago

    contracts. you don't need enthusiastic yes, you both just need to agree. sometimes reluctant yesses from all sides work out because you've negotiated a middle ground that has a compromise that is not quite what you all want, but works out positively enough for each side.

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  • [–] 7 points 9 months ago

    Why did I just know this was going to attract dudes? I avoided it for days because I knew what was coming and didn't need the stress.

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  • [–] 4 points 9 months ago

    One could only wish.

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  • [–] 2 points 9 months ago

    And then everybody clapped

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