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[–] regedit@feddit.online 9 points 1 year ago

Now...we dance!

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[–] can@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 year ago

DBT?

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[–] toofpic@lemmy.world -5 points 1 year ago (1 child)

Now we can stop calling it trauma and call it life. If everyone supposedly has a trauma, maybe we need to reevaluate a cutoff when it's just "problems" and when it's already "trauma"

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[–] can@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

We do?

If it's interfering* with your daily life it's trauma. I'm sure there's a better, more nuanced, definition, but that's the gist.

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[–] VubDapple@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

It is more common than you'd think

[–] ObtuseDoorFrame@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago (1 child)

Same. This includes all of my hobbies and interests, and even the food I like. It's infuriating to realize that the abusers from your childhood had more say in who you are than you did.

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[–] LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone [S] 4 points 1 year ago

Yep the control is a massive part of the abuse, they want a captive. You deserved better

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[–] joby@programming.dev 2 points 1 year ago

I've been realizing this myself lately.