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[–] 54 points 3 weeks ago (6 children)

If an older person claims their kids won't speak to them because they won't give them money, they're almost certainly lying. This doesn't pass the smell test.

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  • [–] 20 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

    You’re underestimating the sheer entitlement produced by executive wealth.

    I’m watching this exact scenario play out. My stepfather spent decades treating his kids to an bottomless piggy bank for business ventures and personal debts. Now that he’s retired and married to my mother, he stopped funding the circus. His Ivy-league educated adult offspring immediately cut all contact until he pays up. When a relationship is built purely as a financial transaction, turning off the money means turning off the relationship.

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  • [–] 4 points 3 weeks ago (1 child)

    Ever seen that famous reddit post about what to do if you win the lottery? Well worth the read! Speaks volumes about human nature and money.

    https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/24vo34/comment/chb38xf/

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  • [–] 6 points 3 weeks ago

    you might consider picking another G7 or otherwise mainstream country other than the U.S. according to where you want to live if [...] Britney Spears is elected to the United States Senate.

    How did the actual US end up worse than a throwaway joke from like 13 years ago

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  • [–] 5 points 3 weeks ago

    Agreed, I cut contact with my dad because he's a narcissistic, bipolar asshole that refuses to get any therapy because "he's the only normal one around here". Well, except for the 10 Sessions of court mandated Anti-aggression therapy, where he actually got into an argument with his therapist because he said that he's feeling fine, and therefore shouldnt have to change.

    Sure, your wife and son left within a few months, and it's everyone else's fault.

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  • [–] 3 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

    I’m not sure this is real, as this (blue checkmark) account Tweets a lot, with tons of “bait” stories like this:

    https://nitter.netbub.com/sheetalbytheway/

    They appear to be some kind of daytrader in India, so there might be motivation for engagement (though I don’t see any kind of ad in their bio).

    The context of India makes the story somewhat interesting, though.

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  • [–] 2 points 3 weeks ago

    I imagine it would be more painful, yes. But I wouldn't pretend to know, without the psychic powers some people here seem to possess.

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  • [–] 2 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 child)

    Honestly, I do feel terrible for the poor Uncle if this is true.

    I can understand from the Son's point of view that seeing his parent's "hoarding" savings that he could really use to keep afloat would make him feel spiteful...

    But ultimately that is an incredibly selfish perspective - trying to guilt your parents into giving up the dreams they'd possibly spent years saving towards after all the years they spent putting them aside to raise you.

    ... And to punish them so harshly for refusing to give up their dreams is cruel. If I do have a child one day, I would hope they're not so self-minded.


    Life is also cruel in that way. You finally manage to scrape away the time and money to do what you wanted and its robbed from you.

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  • [–] 9 points 3 weeks ago

    I kinda think this is one of those “Everybody Sucks Here” but we are only getting half the perspective. In any case the son isn’t owed his dads life savings and a dad isn’t owed his sons affection or respect.

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