Two panel image. Line art side view of a woman looking at her phone. Second panel shows same woman looking up in exasperation while holding her phone.

Text above reads: ‘Are you busy?’ Me: ‘No’ Incoming video call

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[–] 42 points 4 months ago

"Oh, sorry, you meant for a call? No, I'm in a meeting already, I'm free to do stuff but I can't answer a call."

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  • [–] 36 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

    I can hear the groan in this image.

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  • [–] 25 points 4 months ago

    swipes to decline

    Not being busy != Free for a call of any kind.

    Leave me alone. 😭

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  • [–] 12 points 4 months ago*

    "I am shitting, so i'il not answer unless ya want to ear the orchestra"

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  • [–] 5 points 4 months ago

    That isn't asking me if I'm available for a call. So rude.

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  • [–] 5 points 4 months ago

    "yes unless it involves beer"

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  • [–] 8 points 4 months ago

    I don’t mine regular phone calls but fuck video calls. I only ever do those if I am far away and haven’t seen my parents in a long time. Also fuck spam callers in general and hope they all get throat cancer for being leaches on society.

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  • [–] 3 points 4 months ago

    Just reply with Nohello.net

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  • [–] 3 points 4 months ago

    huh. i have somehow managed to instill within myself a penchant for unambiguous specificity in response to this question before this ever became a problem for me.

    "Are you busy?"

    "I am not available for any communication at this moment except for textual.
    I anticipate my response time shall be approximately between 30 and 300 seconds."

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  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago (4 children)

    I hate typing on a phone and I love the opportunity to knock a conversation that would've happened over 2-4 hours in 2 minutes.

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  • [–] 3 points 4 months ago (2 children)

    No, you must refuse to talk to anyone on the phone like a good little autistic person with phone anxiety.

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  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago (1 child)

    I get time anxiety instead. So many misunderstandings chatting back and forth and fuck typing on a touchscreen in general.

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  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago

    You definitely miss a lot when you can't hear tone. It is hard to detect emotions when texting and this can definitely cause misunderstandings.

    I am old school so to speak because I was around during the time of pagers before cell phones. Texting through pagers was the old technology and making a voice call through a cell was the new technology.

    Obviously texting has it uses, but it will always feel a step backwards from voice calls for me.

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago

    When they are concise and with purpose , phone calls are great. But I have so little patience to draw it out into an hour-long affair. And even less for video calls, because then I can’t even be tidying up or doing anything while it happens

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago

    Haven't had one ever. You know you don't have to have them?

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