If you have an asshole that does a bad job for a handyman, you will learn to fear the fixes.

It's not the regularity that is the problem, is the people delivering the fixes. Change manufacturers and software providers. I promise you there is software that is reliable, doesn't get worse over time, respects your freedom, and treats you like a human being instead of a conduit from your bank account to theirs.

You can enjoy software and computers actually.