You know, this was healthy for me to read. Because it shows me just how... Weird... Marriage is.

Am I going to get married again? Only if they are in a similar economic situation as me. I learned that lesson. Which makes it unlikely. Six figure income, with retirement AND health insurance? I might as well be trying to pick up chicks at a wargaming club, or looking out for sharks in a chlorinated swimming pool.

But my ex... Well I certainly wouldn't be invited to the wedding. And if I was, I wouldn't go. How could I? The whole time I'd be singing "praises" about her red flags, telling the story about what she did to me, how her furure-ex-husband is going to be quite disappointed. Oh and if by chance he has a well earning career, I hope he's ok with her being entirely dependent and then demanding more.

And then I'd leave with "all right, see you guys at the next wedding."