Why is “obvious” that people having their countries destroyed and their families murdered by the US government shouldn’t be allowed to have a say in it? This sounds like white supremacism, frankly.
It is pretty obvious insofar as every democracy in history has been a democracy of the it's members by which they determine it's leadership and therefore its direction. It's not clear how or why anyone would allow other nations citizens a vote both logistically and reasonably since other nations are going to have motivations and aims which are directly opposed to ours. Absent an overarching government in which everyone is a member it makes little sense and would destroy any notion of self determination.
So you’re just abandoning your original claim.
The original claim was that it was going to get a lot worse before it gets better because historically every other country that gave into a populist fascist regime had a period of grave strife before it returning to democracy herein defined as it has been traditionally as the people getting to choose their leadership and thus their direction. You are the one that turned it into me continually explaining basic shit to you like why Chinese people can't vote to pick the representative of California.
The assertion after that became more broadly that prior to 2021 we had a democracy. Not a good one but one in which we could throw the leadership out if they fucked up enough and pick new folks. In 2021 they lost and tried to take over. Now they are back and entirely off prior rails. They are making destructive choices that are going to lead to them losing any fair contest by 2028 and are based entirely on prior behavior and statements by self not going to give up power. It is going to get very very bad.