As an autistic in a sales role: Affability can be learned.

That's very individual. I know exactly one woman who insists her man must be taller than her. Most I know like tall but don't really care much. And I know one that has an upper limit while shorter men are ok.

Short kings, who own who they are and remain confident about it, are absolutely welcome in my bed.

However, short, whiny men who use their height as an excuse to complain about women? I don't want to be with someone like that, regardless of their appearance.