I never called you anything, either. Go re-read my posts.
The only times I used the word you were:
I used "(you)" to complete one sentence, using parentheses precisely to express that I wasn't referring specifically to you (if I had been, I would've just said "you.") The sentence after it contains "you," but it's a statement of fact no matter who reads it. Where's the personal insult?
I spoke about two camps: short kings and whiny complainers. If you chose to see yourself as being one of the "whiny men" instead of as one of the "short kings," that's 100% on you.