Have you read "The abolition of man"? Your thoughts are very similar to what the author describes in that book. I too experience it to be larger now than ever before in my life.
The obvious counterside of that coin is: without moral relativism, one would place their culture above others. Something that's seen as an evil in the zeitgeist.
but only Westerners will believe they're not making mistakes and being unwise and immoral because they're perennial fencesitters
I think you might be having a "grass is greener" moment.