Incels don't matter. - You are right, now, how about you stop letting their shit arguments cloud your better judgement.
I also don't like the epidemic being labeled as being "male only", it is far more universal to only affect men. This is apparent by looking at any recent study of loneliness in society. Everybody has become more lonely.
How can you seriously dismiss every lonely man (or anybody else lonely for that matter) as some fucking incel because some shitheads online whine about the same shit they have been whining for about for last decade? Do you seriously not see what you are doing?