I worked in a developing country for three years. Women's breasts were not considered private. As a result, I saw breasts frequently. By about month two, a uncovered female breast was about as interesting to me as her elbow. There's no reason to sexualize the breast. They are baby-feeding organs. Not to go all Freud on you, but I wonder if it's a remnant of the breast-feeding positive feelings.

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[–] 12 points 18 hours ago

This is true for every primary and secondary sexual body attribute.

In my country, we have a widespread "FKK" scene ("Freie Körperkulture" - "Free Body Culture").
Which means just being completely nude, mainly outside.
Every major city has its FKK-beach somewhere, where it is essentially forbidden to wear any clothing.

I have never tried it, but apparently the effect is the same as you describe for the breasts.
Quite soon after being at an FKK-area you just don't care about the nudity any more.

The more you hide stuff, the more interesting it will become.
That's why things like hijabs don't really make sense at all.
I e.g. just find them really alluring and quite erotic...

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