Cheryl Henderson, 65, and Lynn Bisbee, 78, were married on Sept. 20, having live together since 1996.

The pair initially crossed paths through a mutual friend in 1993 and shared a home near Columbia, South Carolina, three years after.

Lynn says she was attracted to Cheryl from their very first meeting. But Cheryl admits she struggled to accept her own sexuality.

Her breakthrough moment came during a therapeutic somatic breathing session in June 2026, when she recognized she'd been "living in a dark prison" and desperately wanted liberation.

Cheryl confessed her feelings to Lynn, who proposed just weeks later. By September, the pair were finally exchanging "I dos."

Cheryl, a retired therapist said: "It's been a quick few months after years of waiting, but we're so happy now. We just got back from our honeymoon and even though we lived together for decades, it feels deeper now."

Lynn and Cheryl initially connected through a mutual friend at a women's retreat in 1993 and bonded immediately.

Lynn, who was living in North Carolina at the time, would go on an hour-and-a-half drive to see Cheryl before they eventually moved in together three years later.

Lynn said: "I knew I was attracted to her from when I first saw her, but then we just became friends. We got on so well that I was happy to make these trips, but it soon became pretty arduous so we decided to move in together."

At the beginning of 2026, Cheryl chose to prioritize her wellbeing, with a physician recommending she explore somatic breathing. The technique involves intentional, conscious breathing to promote bodily relaxation.

During a virtual session, Cheryl envisioned herself trapped inside a dark prison - a vision that helped her recognize she yearned to escape.

Cheryl said: "It was a real awakening for me. I remember after the session I sat by myself on the sofa, just thinking, and after a few hours, I thought to myself 'I guess I'm gay.' And then after another hour, I remember thinking 'I'm f***ing gay!'" I got up and spoke to Lynn and, although I barely remember what I said, I ended it by asking her if she wanted to come to bed with me tonight."

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[–] -1 points 2 hours ago (7 children)

🤷

Anyway, nice to get frustrated by you on yet another topic. See you again next time

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  • [–] 2 points 1 hour ago* (6 children)

    Maybe next time try good faith discussion. You might be surprised.

    Like, you know everyone reading this thread can tell that you actually have no interest in learning or having your pretend questions answered right?

    It seems like you think people can't see right through it.

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  • [–] 0 points 1 hour ago (5 children)

    What's my controversial take? How can someone be in an oblivious closet all their life while they live with their future wife?

    I'm sorry for failing the fucking progressivism contest.

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  • [–] [S] 1 point 48 minutes ago (4 children)

    How can someone be in an oblivious closet all their life while they live with their future wife?

    Internalized homophobia.

    They're in denial because society taught them to hate gay people.

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  • [–] 0 points 28 minutes ago (3 children)

    OK, but usually when people have internalised homophobia they end up in some unfulfilling marriage.

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  • [–] [S] 1 point 26 minutes ago (2 children)
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    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mixed-orientation_marriage#Marriage_between_homosexual_and_heterosexual_partners

    It's a real thing, and since you and your buds want to act like I'm the world's leading homophobe, I think it's wrong/bad for the people involved, and I am making an observation of an existing pattern, and wondering how this individual bucked the trend.

    I think people should embrace their sexual orientation.

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  • [–] [S] 1 point 3 minutes ago

    I'm not denying that some people in the closet enter into marriages with others they aren't necessarily sexually attracted to, but that is not what all closeted gay people do like you're asserting.

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