Same, here, gnome on my main machine for sure.
Wife is on mint cinnamon on her laptop and I have a mini pc running batocera for retro gaming and watching tv/movies.
I've paired down to 3 extensions and don't miss any others honestly. I have appindicators, quick close in main menu, and alphabetical app grid. It's VERY close to vanilla. Sometimes I'll turn on blur my shell and change my wallpaper if I just want a change of scenery so to speak lol