Thanks I really needed that today. I just told my wife that I am trans fem, and I would really love to be seen as a woman. We've been taking about my gender identity the past two weeks, but when I brought it up I had no idea or intention that this is where I would end up. I don't know what to do now. I go back and forth from ecstatic and so proud of myself to crying and curling up in a ball. Somehow I have to pull myself together and go to work. My spouse has been incredible, and she already was out as bi so I knew it probably wouldn't be a big deal. But now that I'm out she is actually questioning if she's actually just a lesbian lol.

I am going to reach out to the local LGBT center, I think they have good resources, but sure anyone have any book recs or other resources? The dysphoria bible was incredible and eye opening and I'm still reading but I would love another book, I just want some one to tell me what to do!