was hoping to get some stats out of grafana but it doesn't go down to the minute

might try and keep a record here if it happens again

ok not going crazy

https://grafana.lem.rocks/d/ddf6tkyd7itc0e/outbound-federation-health?orgId=1&var-instance=aussie.zone&var-remote_instance=All&var-remote_software=All&var-instance_seen_cutoff=43200&var-min_activities_behind=1000&var-max_activities_behind=2000000&from=1753601185243&to=1753606710492