oh, in that case probably I'm missing the cultural context here. I think you personally want to be a woman? I don't know if India counts as Asian in this context but there legally and socially you have birth sex and gender while transitioning and after surgery you officially switch sex. if gender determined by genitals is socially accepted over personal gender identity then it can be like that. best idea then might be saying gender as 'transitioning' rather than male or female to avoid confusion. people would know you have male sex organs with growing female bodily traits and in near future you'll be biologically woman.

I've also heard that in Asian cultures certain homosexual men (who particularly aren't attracted to women at all) are considered as woman in terms of mind but man in terms of body. So it's defined outside male-female binary notion. so cultural context matters.