I recently put Graphene on my no-longer work phone. I think what makes it extra tough is that it feels familiar and simultaneously alien.

Almost like Android is a direct competitor to iOS. Who'd've thought??

There’s an action centre, and you can edit toggles, but there are no editable sliders for audio and brightness.

The brightness slider is at the top of the quick settings panel. Audio slider comes up with the volume buttons and can be quickly expanded to control media/call/ring/notification/alarm volumes, all independently, no matter where you are in the OS.

A lot of the icons feel like buttons but aren’t.

Every icon in the quick settings panel is a button.

Then there’s the gestures. They feel a little off.

They're virtually identical to iOS.

The back motion can be done forward too

And I can't stand the fact that Apple didn't implement this.

and there’s no preview of what “back” is.

Why would there be? You know where you came from.

I'd argue that Apple's implementation of the "back" gesture is laughably terrible in comparison, what with the hilariously tiny back button and the back gesture doing separate things for some reason unknown to anyone.

And I loathe the settings pane.

I loathe all settings that require the use of a search bar to locate a setting that shouldn't require a search bar on the first place. I've used Android since the Eclair release, so I watched it evolve over the years and quickly figured out where the important settings ended up.

TL;DR - Skill issue

Its been damn near 20 years of Apple vs Android, why are we still whining about stupid shit that doesn't matter? If it bothers you that much, use something else.