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[–] 11 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Don’t pronounce it slower or more clearly, and certainly don’t paraphrase.

This, but for real. I just missed one word and don't need you to confuse the issue by adding in extra variables

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  • [–] 5 points 6 days ago (1 child)

    Me as well. I've started trying to make a havit of saying "say again" or "what was that" specifically to help clarify that I didn't misunderstand, I just need you to say the thing you just said again. Srives me up a wall that most people don't just do that, even if it's not quite their fault.

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  • [–] 2 points 6 days ago

    Yeah it's super annoying, because the implication is clearly "oh you didn't understand the concept - let me say it differently".

    And then I find myself doing it to other people....

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