The myth of "consensual" choking
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[+] -15 points 1 week ago (9 children)

Call me old fashioned, but violence in the bedroom should be simulated, not actual. Can a girl consent to being punched? How about stabbed (with a knife) or shot (with a gun)?

Sexual liberation is about enjoying your body, not permission to become a goddamn Cenobite. Some kinks should be shamed.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 week ago

    Arguably it is. No one expects to be choked literally to death. Just like any other consent/consent play: you consent to being forced, within boundaries - and you really really need a safe word and/or other safeguards. As the dominant, you are morally responsible for adhering to those boundaries, ensuring the safety of your partner, and fulfilling whatever they expect to get from the play

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  • [–] 6 points 1 week ago

    Call me old fashioned

    Regressive sexual moralizing is a red flag that a person is a huge piece of shit. "Old fashioned" is putting it lightly. Keep these awful options of yours between you and whatever regressive church you go to, creep.

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