I like being able to find pornography that explores the boundaries of the format, flashy editing style, the video/audio being paced for masturbating to a particular rhythm instead of what makes sense for two people "realistically" having sex. And there's a lot of things that people can learn about their own sexuality through masturbation that I want to know what other people have found.

The problem I have is that certain themes are just utterly unavoidable: feminization, shame, chastity, "you dont deserve pussy", "you need turn off your brain and submit to the alpha". I can get into feminization a little bit because it can be an exploration of how to enjoy your own body, but most of these themes I am really not into in the slightest. I like masturbating all the time and I do it because I feel like it makes my life better not because I'm addicted to it or don't have other options (would still be nice to have easier access to other options).

I actually take offense to being told that "you're not worthy of the real thing" and "you need to submit to your betters". And thats a really big theme for way too much of these this stuff.