Tbf at 25 I thought I was an adult and was actually retarded, but I wouldn’t magically say I was so dumb that I needed to be full on treated like a child. If we treated people like children until 25 then they would just be dumbasses from 25-30. Then we would be arguing that dating a 29 year old is “sus”.

Nevermind how many 60 year olds I know that have the maturity of a toddler… Age, maturity, power and independence are completely different issues… You can be with someone your own age that is fully dependent on you. Age isn’t the driving factor…

But people just get all icky at the thought of the age gap…

Hell, I get annoyed when people call teens, particularly latter teens, "children". They're not. We even have a word for that weird in-between stage, "adolescent". "Child" is insulting. My kids are 11 and 13 and the gap in their behavior is spreading wider by the minute. Daughter's very much a child around her brother, but around my wife and I, she's suddenly a changed person.

LOL, even though I know exactly what's happening, it's still weird talking to her about sex and social dynamics. Fortunately I'm almost certain she's a lesbian so won't have to put up with asshole boys and men. Whew!