If we were in the same room and I shared my experience on any given topic, would you just outright demand that I "shut up"? I've hardly spoken like that to anyone in my life and I guess I'm much older than you. I like to think that you had too much to drink when you replied to my comment with "Oh Shut up". If you just had the time, energy and clarity you'd probably make a great, persuasive argument that I would have no choice but to consider and probably even integrate into my perspective. Here's to you gaining that time, energy and clarity.