They killed far far fewer than the Americans, English, French, Dutch, Spanish, Belgian, Germans, Portuguese, etc.
Sorry to be this person but...whataboutism - this doesn't address the actual argument.
There's a reasonable argument in there, but you need to defend from the position of "would these people have been lifted out of poverty and/or fed through the meat grinder under another system too, even if that system was a western one.
I think this thread is largely actually anarchist leaning which also means you're up against a different set of arguments than you're maybe used to? Anarchists are going the be the harshest critics of any ends/means derived argument, more or less definitionally. They don't really differentiate between Kissinger, Stalin, or Mao committing mass murder for jollies, it's all abhorrent.