That makes sense, I think things like misandry are as harmful as things like misogyny on a case-by-case basis when removed from context, but of course misogyny is far more harmful overall, unless I'm stupid that seems to be what you're also saying.

For the understandable thing I was working with this definition:

Expected or accepted under the circumstances.

Which I would disagree with, but I think you were working off of this one:

Capable of being understood; intelligible.

Which, if you were, I agree with you.