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[–] 2 points 3 weeks ago

Sadly, some of us are unable to 'take a hint' as it doesn't seem like a hint. Not everybody is wired to pick up on small contextual cues and may only notice the big ones; being in a public shopping mall (historically a pretty social location) while not shopping, implies to my brain a desire to be around people, even if you aren't there for the buildings intended purpose. It's definitely fine that your intention wasn't to be social, I don't desire to be social and try to avoid places with people like the plague.

I don't think he did anything wrong either though; the few mall walkers I've known almost consider it a sport so I get why he would say those exact words (not seeing you during their usual meetup time, he was likely inviting you to walk with their group).

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