Honestly, right is goals (duh)
Not happening with this body tho 🥲

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[–] 19 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 child)

I know that beauty standards for women are unhealthy and unrealistic.

I know that if I saw a trans girl with body on left, I would accept her as a girl, because she's a girl.

I know that even cis women don't have the body on right without special genes.

I still feel like I don't pass for not having the body on right sometimes.

Is this what they call cognitive dissonance?

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  • [–] [S] 8 points 3 weeks ago

    Absolutely, in my mind everyone is valid no matter what. Their bodies don't change that in the slightest.

    I know that even cis women don't have the body on right without special genes.

    I know...still, the envy is real. I know I might have had at least a chance at a decent waist, had I been born cis, but with me being trans and going through T puberty...just no sadly 😔

    I still feel like I don't pass for not having the body on right sometimes

    I've never seen you. However, there's a MASSIVE gap between the body on the right (conventionally very attractive) and passing as a woman (people being unable to tell you're trans in everyday life).
    And just for the record, I bet you do pass, silly 🩷

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