As a teen by a couple young women and a young guy, as a young adult by multiple women in bars for the SA part. Coerced was ever to common in earlier relationships. Seemed common that I would get guilt tripped and told things like why don't you find me attractive and on and on continuously making full on situations where basically if I didn't just do it my life was going to be miserable around them and not around them since the invention of the cell phone. Eventually I got out of those relationships and think I kind of became not asexual because I am still sexually attracted to things, but have found I almost prefer a relationship with no sex because I have never found myself in a healthy relationship with a partner who could talk openly about sex that wasn't a casual relationship.