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[–] 8 points 1 month ago*

I don't think it's just you. In a lot of ways I think I'm in the same boat as you.

You strike me as a very sensible and sensitive (in a good way) person. You just have to remember that so many things in the world, and especially the internet are trying to make you feel insecure over these things for self-serving reasons. I think the main thing that matters is just finding someone you're comfortable with, and after the first times it gets less scary.

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