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[+] 51 points 1 year ago (13 children)
  • [–] 31 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    I would, of course, mistake the condescension for genuine and sincere interest. I have found a nerd buddy. Once I'm done dumping, you can dump on me. This is so cool.

    Oh wait... You're being mean. How heart breaking. I'll go climb into my little dark hole.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Awww, I'll be your data dump buddy! I'll tell you all about freshwater fish, brewing rice wine, and woodworking in great detail if you'll tell me your things in equal detail.

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  • [–] [S] 17 points 1 year ago

    Hell yeah I love a good tism info dumping.

    Explaining to me the right tires for the winter? Bleh.

    Explaining to me the history of tires, traction on different types of surfaces, fun facts about rubber... Oooh marry me.

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  • [–] 18 points 1 year ago

    Fr. Sorry that I have 30 years of experience in this area and have observed that you are making the same fundamental errors I made when I had less than 30 years of experience in this area. Fuck me for trying to help, I guess.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago

    I've finally developed the skill those last weeks.

    Info dumping = I walk away. Calmly, kindly but... I just walk away. At work? With friends? At a bar? Walking away.

    My life is easier now and dissociation is down by 90%. I should have done that YEARS ago.

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  • [–] -2 points 1 year ago* (4 children)

    did you ever consider that autistic women are a thing?

    if we ran our mouths as much as men do as if we're experts on every subject, we'd experience severe professional consequences

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    She's trying to explain that socialization reflects these gender differences in how much/often people speak, despite sharing similar neurodivergent traits. Autistic women are told to shut up way more.

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  • [–] 0 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    But this was about mansplaining? I don't recall commenting on ND women at all.

    I understand the frustration, but the absence of comment does not imply the opposite.

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