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[–] 3 points 1 month ago

I think obsessed is really the wrong word here. Sure, I care about making myself happy. Many of my choices are strongly informed by this. But I also know that I’m a social animal and I care a lot about my family and friends, so my happiness also passes through them. I will do less pleasant things to achieve their happiness and therefore mine.

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