Ok, well I'm slightly encouraged that you don't think China is democratic, that's why I thought this discussion was a lost cause.
My definitions for a democracy are pretty straightforward, the people get to either decide the laws of their policies of their government (i.e. ballot initiatives, which are a major part of US government, at least at the state level), or decide who represents them in that government by voting. The elections should be free and fair, and candidates should not be restricted based on their platforms or ideologies. I think that's a pretty uncontroversial definition.
I strongly disagree with your statements about China being freer than the US on the policies I mentioned. I figured you wouldn't like whatever expert rankings I provided... I didn't actually know Freedom House was funded via the state department, but as far as their impartiality goes, consider that per Wikipedia they got their funding through USAID which has since been slashed, and also conservatives in the US don't like them because they think they're anti-conservative. But anyways, here's another few for you:
https://patrickrhamey.com/saturday-research/2025/8/14/2025-state-of-world-liberty-index EDIT: this one at least partially uses Freedom House damnit
https://www.cato.org/human-freedom-index/2025
https://v-dem.net/data_analysis/CountryGraph/
I'm not cherry-picking these, I'm literally just searching for civil liberties rankings. They're all fairly consistent. If you can find one that shows China above the US with independent authors, I'd be interested to see it.