Fair enough, but I think the point is less about the inability to imagine an alternative and more about outsourcing agency or thought. This is something Byung-Chul Han’s writes about: religion, social media, capitalism, etc. can become frameworks we rely on so deeply that we stop questioning them. It is undermining our ability to think for ourselves and question our beliefs.

A 20-year friendship is obviously a very different kind of thing. Maybe a friend you are far too dependent upon and doesn't want you to hang out with other people is a more fitting comparison to most people's relation to social media.