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[–] 1 point 1 month ago (1 child)

would be explicitly liking someone based entirely on their race, and nothing else

That's definitely a thing: fetishizing people because of their race or some other characteristic. I know some weebs, for example, who get deep into that groove. I also have known people who have a kink about having Black sexual partners. And I know two Black women who each like to date white guys and do roleplay with them that involves racial abuse. Both are upper middle class and highly educated. I find all of those fetishes weird, reductive and creepy. But maybe that's just me. Others might draw their lines elsewhere.

I also know couples where the partners are from very different ethnicities, and they're not all weird about it. For example, I didn't get with my wife because of her ethnicity, it was about her intelligence, character and (OK, I'll admit it) strikingly good looks. I knew nothing about her culture at the time.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago

    That's definitely a thing: fetishizing people because of their race or some other characteristic

    I know that's a thing, but would you call that "reverse racism"? That's the point I was trying to make, that such a term is ridiculous.

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