You're the one choosing to view it as belittling, that's your problem. It's an original, and perfectly valid dating option, it gives you a fun story to tell people, you get to know how each other think, and you have an objective which removes some social awkwardness if you don't know what to talk about.
You should also probably not using terabang at the end of every sentence, I know that you're really proud that you figured out how to type it, but you're overdoing it.