Being independent can be incredibly fulfilling.

It can also be fucking exhausting sometimes.

My car battery died, so I ordered a new one. I carefully checked the amperage, dimensions, and compatibility with my car model. It arrived, I removed the old battery (which was no small feat, and I was ridiculously proud of myself when I finally managed it) and then discovered that the terminals on the new battery were reversed and it wouldn't work.

So now I have to return it. Which means carrying a 15 kg battery to the post office.

Then I have to wait for the correct one to arrive.

And after that, I get to figure out why two of my tyres are flat (no problem, I have a spare tyre and ordered a charger/air blower thingy, hopefully it will work).

I am perfectly capable of taking care of my own shit.

I'm just getting a little tired of it. But lesson learned: buy the exact same model of whatever you need to replace if you can.

/rant

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  • [–] 5 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (4 children)

    They should have their own instance that isn't federated until Lemmy adds the ability to not post to all. Until then, expect anyone and everyone to reply.

    Out of respect, I will not be replying to anyone. I said what I said. Reddit had the same problem, but they had an option for subreddits to not post to /all. Until Lemmy includes this option, expect anyone to reply or move to a defederated instance in the interim. I would wager most people who read a post on all do not read the rules of the community or the community they are replying to.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago

    Again, it is expected that everyone adhere to community specific rules. Would you have thrown a fit like this if you posted against the rules in a politics comm?

    I don’t think you would.

    I think y’all have an issue with women gathering on their own without men. It bothers you that there’s a space you’re not allowed to go as a man, doesn’t it?

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  • [–] 17 points 2 months ago (18 children)

    You knew the rules and still mansplained in the women's only community?

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    If you don't curate your feed that's on you.

    I feel like I’m deliberately stepping on a landmine here as I’m not a woman

    You knew what you were doing.

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    And yet you're still here. Still commenting. Still posting against the rules you now definitely know about.

    Fucking Hell, what does it take to get through to you complete and utter bags of dicks!?

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    Just being polite.

    You know you're being rude as hell now.

    I'm not going to shut up because a man told me to do so.

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    You can't control yourself, you mean.

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    How are you this fucking stupid?

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    You could’ve left gracefully, y’know. It’s ok to be wrong.

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    And your fragile snowflake ego couldn't take that so you just had to put the women in their place. By going into their place.

    A real piece of work you are.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    Take responsibility for your actions. They didn’t force you to respond.

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    I didn’t check the rules

    I don’t make a habit of it

    If you come up on my feed that’s on you

    I feel like I’m deliberately stepping on a landmine here as I’m not a woman

    Three of these things belong together. Three of these things are kind of the same. But one of these things just doesn't belong here: now it's time to play the game.

    Which of these statements doesn't belong? Go for it, Sparky! I'm sure you'll be able to figure out it! There's enough clues!

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    No, you continuously breaking the rules after you were reminded of them is what makes you a, to quote you, "stark raving moron".

    Take responsibility for your actions, apologize for breaking the rules, and then leave. That's all that was expected of you and now you have the ire of a bunch of lemmings here.

    It's not hard to follow the rules and YOU agreed to follow community specific rules when you made an account.

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    Does it give you a thrill to force yourself on women saying "no"?

    It certainly seems so. It must do something for you to want to flout rules in a women's only community. Makes you smile to make women feel uncomfortable, doesn't it?

    I see you.

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  • [–] [S] 15 points 2 months ago

    Yeah, I thought so too and I kept on going thinking I would just turn it 180 but the terminals are offset to one of the border, not centered, so if I turn it 180°, the terminals would be closer to the windshield. Positive cable reaches it fine but not the negative one, the cable is too short.

    And yes, that was an amateur mistake, I am an amateur :), one less that I'll do now though.

    I appreciate your advice, there's probably something I haven't thought off.

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