Well look at the state of Gotham and tell me it's different.

All research and successful drug policy shows that treatment should be increased, and law enforcement decreased while abolishing mandatory minimum sentences.

what about punching and batarangs and batcomputers

True, true. I guess I was thinking of the spider bite, not the trauma.

Spider-man literally started as a pro wrestler who used his powers and a costume to make money

He was costumed and super-powered first, but heroic only after his uncle was killed. (By a thief whom Spidey let get away, since the victim was the wrestling promoter who cheated him out of his first earnings.)

I strongly suspect Peter would have eventually become a superhero even without the death of his uncle.