100% agree.

We still have a ways to go in... socially realizing / allowing men to actually express emotional pain... I literally instinctively wanted to just call it 'weakness', lol.

We are still basically at 'well if you are a man and you aren't basically always a tough guy, well then you must be either gay or totally mentally unstable or something'.

That being said, of course there are exceptions to this, my experiences are proof of that, but yeah, its not the norm.