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POV: You have a spray bottle next to the bed (lemmy.today)
submitted 3 months ago by to c/womensstuff@piefed.blahaj.zone
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Transcript: A woman having sex to avoid sulking, tantrums, passive aggression, guilt-tripping or abandonment is not consenting — she's being coerced. That's not a relationship. That's sexual servitude under emotional duress, and far too many women have been conditioned to believe this is what compromise looks like. It's not.

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[–] 16 points 3 months ago* (5 children)

And if you point it out he just says “no I’m not” and that’s the end conversation cause you’ll get more of the same for daring to speak up about it.

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  • [–] [S] 14 points 3 months ago (2 children)

    Spoken like a true child. I once got a "This is bad for my self esteem," when I didn't want to have sex.

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  • [–] 11 points 3 months ago (1 child)

    Yeah, or screams at you because you attack him about things all the time and he can never do anything right.

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  • [–] 14 points 3 months ago

    Wow, so much this. I've had guys where if you gave even the slightest suggestion of what they could do differently to make sex more enjoyable they'd throw a tantrum and call it nagging that interferes with their performance.

    Dude. I said try circular motions instead of lapping like a dog at a water bowl.

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