"Socialized male" is one of the key tools in deploying transmisogyny specifically against trans women.
transphobic examples
Oh, you're angry? That's because at root, you're really a man. Sorry, fem-card revoked for 30 days.
You dress masculine-ish because it's more comfortable? That's because you were grown up as a man and you really are one at root.
Hey, you're wearing too much makeup and those costume jewelry look like a cartoon of a woman. That's because you're really a man and you were raised as one.
And on and on and on. It's crap. Just walk away from it. Transmisogyny is just one form of gaslighting.