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[–] 100 points 3 months ago (39 children)

The fediverse isn't worth saving after all.

The fediverse shouldn't need A savior. It should be its own thing that no one person can control or stop.

Maybe this... Maybe this is the fediverse healing? 🥹

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  • [–] 10 points 3 months ago* (38 children)

    Now we need to somehow get @PugJesus@lemmy.world back. The redemption arc.

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  • [–] 7 points 3 months ago (33 children)

    Please, we don't need that guy back. I'd rather not be stalked by him again.

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  • [–] 11 points 3 months ago* (29 children)

    Yeah they're banned from blahaj for a fucking reason.

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  • [–] 3 points 3 months ago (5 children)

    And even after he's gone, he still is downvoting people here. He just can't leave the place he said he's leaving. I guess he has more transphobia and genocide to defend.

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  • [–] 2 points 3 months ago (4 children)

    He's not done acting with "dignity and grace" or whatever the fuck lmao

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  • [–] 3 points 3 months ago (3 children)

    Admiral Patrick and PugJeuss are the smae person effectively. Both hate actions being called out.

    By the way, SmugJesus replied to St Elesewere and said Ada is lying about him. He knows you and Ada can't rebuke him, so he replies only to people who can't read his messages to prove him wrong.

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  • [–] 2 points 3 months ago* (1 child)

    A tip of the hat ol' Eugene Debs as per always. You've also always been a good egg, friend.

    He will never admit that he is transphobic by dictating that transness has to fit his definition of it.

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  • [–] 2 points 3 months ago

    Admiral Patrick and PugJeuss are the smae person effectively. Both hate actions being called out.

    Sorry for providing evidence of your bullshit, lmao. I know you hate evidence.

    By the way, SmugJesus replied to St Elesewere and said Ada is lying about him. He knows you and Ada can’t rebuke him, so he replies only to people who can’t read his messages to prove him wrong.

    I have literally spoken directly to Ada several times on the issue, and her response was to block me. Sorry that not everyone is a coward like you. :)

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  • [–] 5 points 3 months ago* (3 children)

    Because I, while on a non-Blahaj instance and having not used any Blahaj comms in months, opined that while I would use anyone's neopronouns, including Drag's, and had no interest in getting into an argument with anyone about their gender, I didn't think dragons were real.

    To Ada, that was ban-worthy.

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  • [–] 2 points 3 months ago* (2 children)

    I thought that was it. Yeah, Ada definitely defends her site with a level of zeal. She mellowed out as potential community issues dwindled, but was contemporaneously doing what beehaw hoped to do. Building a safe space in a semi-open system.

    If someone wants to make up pronouns and act like a goof, they’re protected under the same system by design. Questioning is perceived as an attack in a safe space. Fundamentally, she wants everyone at blahaj to feel 200% safe. Real? Fake? Not anyone’s business. Just be and allow others to be.

    Finally making my way to my point, most people don’t need to be in a safe space. Pointing out that someone’s manner of being isn’t conducive to the perpetuation of a safe space is really not much of a takedown and I’m not sure why the user above feels like it is.

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  • [–] 2 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (17 children)

    He has a narrow definition of transness and harassed the community over a trans person ostensibly feeling "unwelcome" because of the existence of people like, Drag the dragon fucker, who wanted to be referred to by Drag's name, Drag, only.

    Essentially transphobic to certain subsets of the trans community.

    Refused to respect it and caused a shitstorm and now says people lie about it.

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  • [–] 3 points 3 months ago (16 children)

    Isn’t drag just trolling? Drag’s the alt account of another, more prolific user apparently lacking any of the same… would zoophilic tendencies be the right phrasing when speaking about a sapient, fictional species? Either way, I just hope people feel safe on blahaj when all is said and done.

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  • [–] 3 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (15 children)

    I dunno Drag always seemed sincere to me, and perhaps Drag was outed as a troll later on (I haven't seen Drag in a long time, maybe that's why), but really what it comes down to is having basic respect for people instead of instantly deciding they must be a troll because of their neopronouns. Ada isn't about people making snap judgments with no evidence and Drags neopronouns were just as valid as anyone else's.

    Even now, not knowing if Drag is a troll or not, it's still worth respecting on the off chance Drag's not a troll and just a weirdo.

    A post from Ada two years ago summing it up:

    https://lem.lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/20091173

    I’ve been waiting until after Christmas day to make this post, but some of our communities recently have had a lot of noise and upset over someone that uses neopronouns that most people are unfamiliar with.

    So I want to make this clear. A persons pronouns are to be respected. This is true when the user is using neopronouns that you’re unfamiliar with. It’s true even if you think someone is trolling. Pronouns are not rewards for good behaviour. They aren’t only to be respected when you like the person you’re interacting with, or if their pronouns “make sense” to you. Trolls, spammers, twitter users, it doesn’t matter who they are, your options are to respect their pronouns, or to not engage with them.

    I really want to re-iterate the importance of this. Gender diverse folk are undermined, invalidated and questioned at every step of our lives. As a community, we need to be working to undo that, not creating more of it, and that means there is no space for treating pronouns (including neopronouns) as a reward for good behaviour.

    This isn’t a free reign for trolls and spammers. The rules still apply. Trolling, spamming, etc will continue to be dealt with, but it’s not an excuse to act as if respecting someones pronouns is optional.

    Pug couldn't handle this basic request for decency. *shrugs

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  • [–] 4 points 3 months ago

    That is my perspective as well. It’s worth neither the time nor energy to try to parse drag’s deal. People come in too many shapes and sizes to constrain your perspective. Drag is, at worst, a useful litmus test. However, this does read a bit like Kassandra’s prescience.

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  • [–] 2 points 3 months ago* (10 children)

    And Pug is still stalking this thread and replying exclusively to you and me so Ada and other Admins can't see him.

    He's very afraid of the truth being told to him. I'm half tempted to ask Ada if Pug is lying, like he has about her before.

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  • [–] 2 points 3 months ago (8 children)

    I mean I'm sure, that he is too afraid to talk to anyone directly doesn't exactly speak to sincerity.

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  • [–] 3 points 3 months ago (6 children)

    It's very impressive how he can be so sure of himself yet not let facts contractict himself. He's not a transphobe, the trans people are wrong!

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  • [–] 2 points 3 months ago (4 children)

    Yeah some people just don't know how to take an L on the chin and learn from it.

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  • [–] 4 points 3 months ago (2 children)

    I'm sure he's screaming at us from his tower, feeling smug about how he's always right. It's the queers and brown people who are wrong to the cishet white man who doesn't go outside.

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  • [–] 2 points 3 months ago

    PugJesus makes memes about Romans like fascists on Twitter because if he said anyone alive was his friend, they'd immediately disown him.

    Any day now he'll leave this place. Any day now.

    Ableism is when you notice people who said they hate this place and are leaving didn't leave. I guess what's racism too? Or whatever drivel he's saying now.

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  • [–] 2 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

    I’m sure he’s screaming at us from his tower, feeling smug about how he’s always right.

    How utterly bizarre.

    Like, the only question of correctness in this entire argument is regarding my supposed transphobia, which you've had zero evidence of.

    It’s the queers and brown people who are wrong to the cishet white man who doesn’t go outside.

    Uh. Sorry for not matching the stereotype you made up in your head?

    Also sorry for being disabled, I know ableism is one of your favorite pastimes. On top of the racism, of course.

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  • [–] 1 point 3 months ago

    It’s very impressive how he can be so sure of himself yet not let facts contractict himself.

    It's funny because at no point have you presented anything even vaguely resembling facts, just accusations that you can't back up.

    He’s not a transphobe, the trans people are wrong!

    ... by all means, quote my supposed transphobia.

    Ah, wait, of course - you can't, because this is all bullshit predicated on the standard notion that lies spread by repetition.

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  • [–] 1 point 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

    And Pug is still stalking this thread and replying exclusively to you and me so Ada and other Admins can’t see him.

    what

    Ada has me blocked, as I mentioned and you literally acknowledged. And, quite literally, I responded to several other people in this thread.

    Real MAGA shit here, just a total disregard for what was said a single sentence ago.

    My most pathetic fanboy here is really something else.

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  • [–] 2 points 3 months ago (1 child)

    Pug couldn’t handle this basic request for decency.

    And still can't, and still insists Ada is evil for blocking him. Very pathetic behavior.

    Still waiting for when he leaves, like how Admiral Patrick said he was leaving a year ago.

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  • [–] 4 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

    And still can’t,

    Go ahead, sweetheart, find a comment where I refuse to use someone's preferred pronouns. You should be able to back up what you say with evidence, after all, like I did - at least if this isn't some bizarrely delusional obsession with me. :)

    If your head wasn't cramped with genocide apologia, it'd be a nice rent-free alternative to my current place.

    and still insists Ada is evil for blocking him. Very pathetic behavior.

    From "I can't believe he won't even correct the record where Ada can see!" to "Wow I sure am glad Ada made sure she can't see him correct the record!"

    Fascists like you do enjoy playing with words, after all. :)

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  • [–] 2 points 3 months ago

    Pug couldn’t handle this basic request for decency. *shrugs

    Again, I never failed to use Drag's pronouns, nor did I object to the neopronouns used. In fact, Drag never gave me any guff about acknowledging dragons, and likewise, I never bothered Drag about it. It was always unrelated people insisting that I had to acknowledge the reality of dragons existing, or else be transphobic.

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  • [–] 3 points 3 months ago* (1 child)

    I do find it funny, that despite claiming he's moving on from here, he still takes time to downvote people who call out his actions. https://lemvotes.org/comment/lemmy.dbzer0.com/comment/27287239

    Hey Pug, I thought you were leaving this place? Can't quite let someone you hate get away with being correct?

    Sorry I call out your actions, are you sure you're not the teseract dev? You hate when people document your actions and crash out when people do.

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  • [–] 2 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

    Hey Pug, I thought you were leaving this place? Can’t quite let someone you hate get away with being correct?

    Sorry for coming back to check on a ping, I know my constant posting is unchanged from my previous usage.

    I'm also sorry that you're assmad over being called out, with evidence, on your utter bullshit. :)

    And shit, you talk about me constantly. I'm your number one obsession. If I insisted on responding every time you said stupid bullshit about me, I'd have twice the comment count I actually do, lmao.

    Sorry that your obsession isn't mutual, sweetheart.

    Sorry I call out your actions, are you sure you’re not the teseract dev? You hate when people document your actions and crash out when people do.

    It's particularly amusing since I actually backed up my claim with evidence, while your claim of "stalking" amounts to a handful of downvotes over the course of a single day.

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