I'm sorry to hear that, but it does make sense - the whole Fediverse is like the wild West, and things are barely being "done", much less properly with an eye to elimination of the technical debt, even while people are actively trying to use it.

Keep doing what's fun for you! Especially if that helps with the irl stress. The latter may get worse, as e.g. it looks like the USA is next preparing to take on Cuba as a target - and then either Greenland and/or Canada?

We all gotta find a way to survive somehow...