So would you rather I assume they just don't know any better, that they lack agency and enough insight to recognize that calling it "self-expression" is internalizing an imposed identity? Or are you going to care-troll that I'm calling them stupid and helpless then?

Yes, I think most people get that's all it is, and they do it anyway. I think the impulse to ignore external imposition is pretty deeply conditioned in people and I think that's unfortunate. Do I think it's their fault, not entirely, but do I also think they have a choice in it, I certainly do. Even when it's a matter of practical necessity, we should always be aware of identity imposed externally, because it can and often is used against you. I do think that offering customized plates is kind of gross because it's a way of dulling that awareness, and I think it's morbid that people have been conditioned to accept it, even fully cognizant of what it represents.

And you can keep your red herring, I'm not interested.