If there's anything useful that came from the discussion with @whatiswrongwithyou@lemmy.ml (to answer your other reactions too),
I just want to mention, that thread turned out to be genuinely interesting, as you gave response to multiple things I myself couldn't have put into words.
my problem with his attitude is that I worry it's effective to deter most people from seeking privacy, or actually from seeking the ways to keep being off the record with your daily habits, when you would prefer that way. but it was good to see he couldn't put you off with that.
is that "anonymity" might actually be a reasonable fit, that is if:
data couldn’t, in any way, shape or form and without measurable confidence, be attributed to a person (or context related to them: a car, or a specific shirt worn that day, being examples); then details about one’s private life couldn’t be inferred, based on publicly available information.
I think to me anonymity is not quite that. my desire is not that I walk on the street and nobody recognizes me.
but, now thinking about this again, maybe pseudonimity as we use it on the threadiverse, is quite close to it. but something tells me that would also sound like silly term to the generic person.
I personally have no confidence in any "anonymization" post-collection; and a camera for example, physically unable to capture my likeness, being the only meaningful reassurance anonymity is being preserved.
I agree on that. that depends on the operator doing the right thing, for which there is no incentive by not being verifiable.