This is overall very good advice. But I'm going to push back on the stuff about sex. I'm asexual, but I've done kinky stuff with a lot of people who turned out to be abusive garbage, and even a Nazi girl. And I don't regret any of the sexy stuff. I regret the bad relationships and being abused. I regret the love, but not the lust. The best sexual experience I've ever had was with an enby who destroyed Me for months and left trauma that lasted years. The relationship was not worth it. But gods above, that one night was...

If you're gonna fall in love with crazy, you might as well stick your dick in it!