This is the wrong community for these kind of posts, if you have issues you want to discuss regarding this instance, please use !meta@programming.dev. As for your complaint about DMs from our admin team, I would recommend you to send any complaints about admin behaviour as explained on our legal site

On a different note, you have been given multiple warnings for your use of slurs, which have no place on an instance about programming. You will be given a second (and final) temporary ban of 14 days, any repeated offences will result in a permanent ban on our instance.