To the guy in the simulation, any experience is real.
Again, you have no basis for claiming that there is experience in the simulation in the first place. If you set up some simulation to mimic human behavior there's no reason to assume that it is experiencing that behavior. You're putting an assumption here.
If you would insist ‘well that’s only simulating consciousness’ - that counts.
I never insisted that it's "only simulating consciousness." I'm rejecting the baseless assertion that consciousness is what's being simulated. If you simulate the physical processes that we associate with consciousness (neural networks), even if it produces enough observable behaviors that we find the model useful, it is still a different physical thing and therefore we are unable to assert that it is experiencing consciousness.