From what I've seen, a lot of the pushback against "woke" games revolves around whether they're good or not. Almost no one cares about a good game being woke, stuff like BG3 was widely enjoyed by a lot of people despite having gay characters/etc.

However when a game is bad or mediocre, people are quick to blame any "woke" content in the game. There's a mentality of "they were putting effort in pushing a political/social agenda I don't agree with, while not putting in enough effort on the stuff that actually matters".

Of course, now you have a lot of people assuming whether a game will be good or not based on how the perceive it. But if it comes out, and is actually a good game, that's enough to quiet most all of the complaints it seems.