I’d start a YouTube channel to document my travel life, but Google.
I hear ya... So, what I've done about it is to self host videos & pics.
Potato tier VPS is dirty cheap. I host my vids and some for friends and family. Random shit. Pet vids. Little vacation clips. Cool projects. W/e. What we want to share with each other but not with G. Raw dog custom HTML.
You can gate it any old way. I use a simple IP gate. Friends can come in. BigTech stays out.
You don't need much, when you're not hosting for the whole ass world.