We all did, and agreed it is better here:-).
Here is the last discussion about it afaik. Here is a quote from the comments in that discussion:
While the Fediverse may be “strong” overall, the individual pieces are too fragile to handle a significant Rexit onslaught. If even a small fraction of all Reddit users came to the Fediverse en-masse, this place as we know it would be gone.
Here is another quote:
I don’t want people from Reddit here. The fact that half of Twatter moved to Bluesky instead of Mastodon is a blessing. ActivityPub is by design a data harvesting goldmine, the fact that it flies under the radar is the only saving grace.
These were both highly upvoted, with tens of upvotes and almost no downvotes. I could go on... and in fact, here's one more:
Ready for a bunch of teens coming in and trashing the place? No.
(this one had many downvotes, but it had >3-fold more upvotes than down so...) Another one is:
No, not ready for another USA spam shit. Other than that, the rest is fine.
On the bright side, the upcoming Lemmy 1.0 software should help a bit, as moderation reports will finally federate out to mods on other instances besides exclusively the one that the community itself is on.
But there are more downsides too - such as the fact that since that discussion the anarchist flotilla has been pushing strongly to defederate from lemmy.world, and any instance that runs PieFed software too, for being "zionists" - thereby further fracturing the Threadiverse into tankie-tolerant vs. tankie-intolerant spaces, and increasing the complexity of someone having to pick an instance. This includes lemmy.dbzer0.com that is the #7 most popular instance.
Leftist in-fighting and the complexity of signing up are the top 2 reasons why people do not join. Lack of content is the third, which is further aggravated by defederations and in-fighting.
I am so very glad that you felt welcomed here. I am so glad that you persevered through all of this. But... I can understand why people choose not to. At the end of the day we cannot control how others feel.